4 motives to rethink our sexual life

• Because the way we experience love does not necessarily conform to the natural laws of human sexuality.
• Because the sufferings linked to romantic disappointments are among the most painful and traumati
• Because married life as it is conceived and the social model based on the nuclear family are the cause of many individual and social difficulties.
• Because the knowledge of the genetic programming of sexual drives is essential to raise from the dead in the experience of love, its transcendent dimension, the only one capable of bringing us happiness.

The way of experiencing love and sex has changed a lot in recent centuries. The idea of ​​finding love in marriage dates back only to the 12th century and has hardly been proven successful. Homosexuality was vilified until the end of the 20th century, while homophobia is still being pursued today. Child-adult relationships were common until the 18th century and have since been increasingly condemned.

However, we conform our sex life, consciously and unconsciously, to the demands of culture. If these demands do not correspond to the natural instinctual demands (as they are genetically programmed), there inevitably follows frustration, conflict and suffering. Understanding the natural function of non-reproductive sexuality and assigning it a specific purpose makes it possible to break the deadlock and for making love to rhyme again with happiness, even happily ever after.